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Hot on the heels of Obama’s ‘teachable’ race moment- an Alexander Wang request – and a personal thank you
Dear Shaded Viewers,
Hot on the heels of Obama’s remark about the Gates affair racism still haunts America even after Obama’s election. Which ever side of the argument you are on, it is clear that we still have a lot to learn about racism.
A well respected stylist requested clothes yesterday from Alexander Wang for an honored and respected singer that happens to be a woman of color. She received the e mail listed below within 20 seconds of her e mail request. The story so totally disgusted me that I decided to publish the 3 e mails. The first is from the PR asst, then the stylist’s reponse and finally a thank you from the same PR assistant who was happy to regain her spine and with it her integrity. For obvious reasons the performer, stylist and PR assistant will go unnamed. Of course Alexander Wang is welcome to put forward his own explanation of this unfortunate situation and I would be more than happy to publish it in this post.
Reply From the PR Asst to sylist’s request:
Unfortunately due to our limited number of samples none of these are available right now for your shoot dates!
Thank you for your request and I look forward to working with you in the future.
PR Assistant
From the Stylist in response to PR Assistant’s e mail:
Thank you for your quick decision, I am a stylist, whom through out my career, living and working in the industry for 18 years in Europe, cannot imagine such an obviously personal response. As we are referring to the brand ALEXANDER WANG, it sems that he has no intention of ever supporting such singer/celebrities like ______________.and others like her, with whom give him the ground to achieve success outside of the US. How disappointing, that he has allowed this sort of personal decision to be made. As a publisher and editor of my own magazine, I could never underestimate the response or reputation of this matter and of course you are, as a PR asst. forced to send this response by the order of Alexander Wang himself. How shocking and embarrassing this is…wow, All the best, ______________
From the same PR Asst:
I want to thank you for your email yesterday. I had been struggling to keep my integrity intact as PR assistant at that company and your email gave me the confidence yesterday to walk out entirely. You are entirely right about Alexander Wang, and I am proud to no longer be associated with the company. I can now regain my spine and walk tall again.
Thank you again.




With the passage of Gay Marriage laws in Iowa and Vermont in the space of a week, bringing the grand total of states to four, it seems like the spirit of ‘Yes We Can,’ has been carried into a couple of the state courts and congresses. This recent burst of activity is certainly encouraging as we continue to wage the war of equal rights across the nation. With all the news of death (shooting after shooting, earthquakes, and wars), and the flaccid (at best) economy, this bit of politics is a welcome ray of sunshine in an otherwise bleak forecast. Needless to say, we have a long way to go, 46 states to be exact, but for the sake of careless optimism feel free to take a moment to imagine just how your dream wedding may play out in the great cornfields of Iowa or the bear-friendly backwoods of Vermont.
In college I wrote a column about sex and money. Like every nascent sex columnist I was interested in exploring the relationship between the two and how both inversely seemed to affect our love lives. My theory at the time was that those gifted in either area stood to gain most easily in the other. Rich guys can afford the highest class of escorts or attract gold-diggers, and those deemed sexy and desirable have been proven to more successful on average in any industry. But in these trying economic times, do these standards still apply? Has income and appearance become more or less relevant?


BAD DAY FOR WISCONSIN GAYS - There’s a badger and bear fight going on the sore subject of marriage equality. An obscure state law in Wisconsin (The Badger State) makes it a crime for WI residents to marry in another state (ie CA), if the marriage is prohibited in WI (which it is).

